Monday, March 12, 2012

Risking death for adultery


Risking death for adultery

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Have you ever wondered why some couples risk their lives to commit adultery? Impulsiveness perhaps or the proverbial seven-year itch. Whatever the reason or stimulus, the punishment may be death.


   Yes, stoning to death, which was practised in Biblical times, is still the penalty for sexual infidelity in some countries like Iran, Nigeria and Somalia. Yet married couples defy the ancient law stated in the seventh commandment.


   In the Roman period, a guilty spouse could be banished. A woman's father was allowed to kill her and her partner.


   The punishment  for adultery was whipping in puritan Massachusetts. A Boston law in the mid-1600 provided for death as the sentence.  


   Honour killings were condoned or permitted in ancient Egyptian, Babylonian, Chinese, Persian and North American  native American cultures that regarded extramarital sex as a family or community disgrace. They are still carried out in.some part of the world, often with impunity.


   Why do couples do it? Some people think they are immature, irresponsible and even lustful as they indulge in illicit liaisons. The relationships may not be sexual, for many adulterers or adulteresses turn to other partners for comfort, security or communication when they fail to deal with their marriage problems.  


   Millions of adulterous spouses


   According to the Kinsey Report, nearly 60 per cent of American men and 30 per cent of women were unfaithful before the age of 40. Recent research in the US shows that 25 per cent of husbands and 17 per cent of wives had an affair. This means that 31 million American spouses had breached the sanctity of marriage.


   Nearly 65 per cent of such marriages end in divorce. The adulterous behaviour of parents often affects children when they grow up.


   The public sentiment against adultery remains strong but in a liberated society, prosecution is rare. Sexual infidelity is sometimes treated as a personal issue. Modern-thinking people view it as cheating that happens as frequent as road accidents.


   In a polygamous community or wife swapping, it is not cheating at all. Couples merely fool around, have a fling or take a legally accepted partner.


   Penal codes in most countries do not stipulate punishment for extramarital sex. It is however an offence in Malaysia to entice or take away with a criminal intent a married woman. The penalty may be a prison term of two years, or a fine, or both.


   Safer is virtual adultery through Second Life on the Internet. The members-only site allows four million married men and women to create and experience sexual fantasies online. 


   All told, no spouse is immune to sexual infidelity. It can happen to anyone in need of affection, two-way communication, financial or family commitment, or sexual fulfilment.  






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